I used to think success was about being perfect, crossing all the “t’s” and dotting all the “i’s” and achieving all the goals. In high school, I’d find myself overanalyzing what I could’ve done better even when I’d done something I was truly proud of. Being a state officer has shifted this. I’ve come to understand success isn’t about being perfect. It’s about enjoying the ride and learning from every experience.

I know success is mental. It’s about embracing the imperfection and learning to be happy with the progress you do achieve when things do not go as planned. Instead of stressing about what I cannot change, I opt to go with the flow and find the silver lining in every situation. Success is in the attempting, the gaining of knowledge, and in being able to step back, breathe and smile at where you have gotten.

Success is a process and not a destination. It’s persistence, not perfection. So, to all who think they are just not there yet, remember: your mindset defines your success. Take pride in your journey. Celebrate those small wins and never forget to enjoy the moment.